Ever Since I Came Out/realizing I Was Trans, I Started To Hate My Room Decor So Im Changing It From Pastel

yall we got a roach in the bathroom (mom thinks theyre coming from the pipes) and tell me why when i came home from my driving lesson, i wanted to wash my hands (covid has instilled washing your hands immediately when you come home in me) so i opened the bathroom door, turned on the light, and saw the roach RUNNING from the toilet to back under the washing machine where it hides 😭

i was spooked but then calmed down and found how it moved so funny 😭

wish i was able to take a picture but the two times i saw it i didnt bring my phone with me

i have an odd fascination with bugs. i love to look at them but sudden movement from them makes me scared bc the way they move is always so funny/odd to me

When I say that transmasculine people, including, obviously, binary trans men, don't hold power over women, there's always ONE fucker who's like "oh yeah ? But what if it's a whit, able-bodied perisex transhet man who's papers are all changed, who cispasses and is totally stealth AND is a manager ??? What then ???"

And I'm like, you CAN'T be in good faith rn. I'm not saying this particular case doesn't exist but be for real, it must be one in a fucking million. And even in this case, the dude is one outing away from having all his privileges taken away from him, which isn't the case for cis white men.

Stop nitpicking. Transmasculine people don't hold power over women. Period. If you want a punching bag, aim at the people who are truly after your ass.

my brothers response to me starting hrt a few weeks ago

chat ima need yall to imagine somone

imagine a person, androgynous looking but if you had to choose, assuming youre thinking heteronormatively), see them as a guy and masculine

theyre black (very important when it comes to choosing my name tbh), nonbinary agender, usually has their afro (thats dyed blonde) out, will probably lock their hair soon

but they also love femininity, still dress feminine, and refers to themselves using the term “femboy”

whagt name do you vibe with for said person? thinking abt changing it bc my cousin makes fun of my current one a lot and my brother kinda makes fun of it

also, if you comment your own it needs to start with the letter s!! i dont want my initials to change lol

current preference is sage and soren tied for first and silas is in last place

ever since coming out and realizing that im a trans man, i feel so weird romancing haley in stardew valley

i might romance alex or shane instead instead 😭

trans folks with faded surgery scars. trans folks who’ve lost sensation or had botched surgeries. trans folk who stop and start or switch hrt. you’re not forgotten right now.

me and my mom were talking about my dads family (whom she doesnt like a lot of, for good reason tbh)

she mentioned hoe my grandmother once told her that she thought i might have adhd when i was a baby or toddler and my mom shut it doen

i find it VERY ironic seeing as, i too, now believe i might have adhd or at least neurodivergent in some sense

im studying to become a veterinarian and we need to stop normalizing animal neglect as the norm this shits actually disgusting 😭

KEEP YOUR CATS INSIDE!!!!!!

indoor cats live up to 20 years whilst outside cats typically only live till theyre 4-10!!!!!

STOP neglecting your cat.

and your “outdoor cat” ISNT your cat. thats just a cat that comes to your house once in a while. they live outside because you refuse to actually care for them. dont be surprised if the cat never returns and hope and pray someone took them in and they didnt die a horrible and painful death like being hit by a car, dying of hypothermia/heat stroke, being taken by other ACTUAL wild animals because fun fact! theres no such thing as a wild version of the domesticated house cat! because they ARE DOMESTICATED. they are NOT meant to be outside. they ruin the environment and its very likely theyre going to die a horrible and painful death!!!

and to people saying that they cry because they want to go out i hope to god you dont have children and i don’t even believe in god! because cats are mentally toddlers and i bet your ass wouldn’t let a toddler go play in the fucking street just because they’re crying because they want to. there ARE safe ways to bring your cats out such as…

walks! bring your cat out on walks on leashes! if you have the space, time, and money then build a catio!

STOP putting your cats life in danger because youre fucking lazy. do not get a pet if you cant properly provide or care for them. i have zero empathy for people like that. if you cannot afford the time and money for a cat then do NOT GET ONE. surrender them to a shelter!! find someone else to give them to!! dont put your animal in danger just because you refuse to admit that youre a bad pet owner.

stop normalizing the neglect and abuse of cats. take care of your fucking cat and bring them inside where they are warm and safe.

You're gonna let somebody with an outside cat talk to you that way....?

any other trans person or queer in general plan on purchasing a firearm for protection at this point? 😇?

There's something about the Kirby plush in the background that really sells this

Im not sure if i should transition or not. What helped you figure out what to do? Its honestly upsetting how back and forth my mind goes

I knew if I didn't at least try hrt, I would spend the rest of my life wondering and that's my biggest fear.

Also, people who don't need to transition don't usually spend so much time thinking about it. Just a thought.