Great Info

Great info

Me and my bf have been trying new things and I let him eat my ass and finger it too, I really want to have anal sex but he's pretty big(12inch) and I'm scared any tips ?

5 essential things that can help with the first time anal experience. 

1. Time—-If you can’t set aside a few hours, then don’t even try. You have to relax your two sphincter muscles to get him inside of you comfortably. The first muscle is the one you control voluntarily when you do number 2. The second is based on how relaxed you are. Your anus will never open up comfortably if you aren’t relaxed or trying to rush through it. Take your time.

2. Lubrication—-Absolutely essential. No such thing as too MUCH lube but def such thing as too little. I like water based lubes best.

3. Prep—-To relieve anxiety and help the body relax, shower or bathe before hand. In fact, showering together can be fun and kill two birds with one stone. Might help to not eat anything beforehand so that there isn’t any bowels inside when it happens. Most of sex is mental, so if you feel clean and fresh, your body may respond by letting you concentrate on the pleasurable nerves of your butthole instead of your anxiety.

4. Toys—-Many people, both gay and straight use butt plugs to help open them up. They are 1-3 inch long toys that can be bought cheaply (less than $10 at some sex shops) and go a long way towards getting the anus used to the pressure of penetration. Before you try a big dick, maybe you can experiment with a large dildo.

5. Open mind—-Anal sex is still pretty taboo in some communities, so it’s good that you and your partner have already gotten over the stigmas. Anal orgasm are possible for both men and women. The anus has a ton of nerve endings and indirect gspot stimulation is possible from getting fucked there.

The common thing I hear is that anal sex should “never hurt” if done right. But with your boyfriend having a donkey penis, I’m not so sure how that holds up. lol. Please make sure he is patient with you and that if it doesn’t fit, then it doesn’t fit. Don’t force the issue. If he complains, tell him you’d like to use a 12 inch dildo on him (jk).  Protect yourself and have fun.